Monday, December 28, 2015

Zeke: 8 Months!

Welp.  I missed the 7 months post.  Poor Zeke.  He certainly seems to be experiencing that thing where there are less pictures and stuff written about him.  Too many other kids to look after.  But, I wouldn't have it any other way!!
  • Crawling all over the place and fast too.
  • Wants to eat any time we are eating.  Will take baby foods/rice cereal, but seems to want what we are having if there is something he can work with.  
  • Starting to like the bath.
  • Doesn't take a pacifier.  Or his thumb.  I can live with that.
  • Not sleeping through the night.  Still gets up once, usually twice to nurse.  And he is an early riser.  
  • Dinner time is the witching hour.  He does not like me to cook.  He wants me to hold him pretty much the whole time I should be cooking.  I usually love cooking, but Zeke...
  • He likes those little surf-board MumMums. 



He loves to climb all over Thomas.  And the big boys too.





Grandma Clemens came to visit!


I could not get a better picture, but this boys is already trying to climb the stairs!  Lord help me!


Riding on my knees:)


One of his favorite pastimes:  pulling my hair, sliming all over my hair, climbing all over me!


Sweet potatoes and favorite people


Zeke at 6 months

At 6 months Zeke:

  • Rolls all over the place.  I have to gate the top of the stairs when I put him outside the boys' bathroom because I am worried he will roll all over the place and right down them.
  • He has a voice.  It mostly feels like he is yelling at my all the time, but I can take it. 
  • His hair is still crazy, but it doesn't stand up anymore.  And he is the blondest of all my babies.
  • He has started on some baby foods with rice cereal and seems to like them.  
  • His most favorite place is in my arms or on my hip.  
  • Napping is not his favorite, at least not long naps.  Cat-napping seems to be his thing.
  • Jackson, Max, and Thomas make his eyes light up.
Ha ha.  There might be more than this, but he just turned 7 months, so I better make the post, with a few pictures.















Sunday, October 4, 2015

Will YOU be a part of something amazing???

Back a number of years ago I attended the "Women of Faith" conference in Oklahoma City.  There, I was introduced to the idea of child sponsorship and I walked away from the conference with a little boy, Mpundu.  I will admit to being a poor communicator.  I did all the things WorldVision sent me to keep in touch with him and let him know he is thought of and loved from afar.  But I didn't so much extra.

Fast forward to our time in the Azores.  I had been wanting to sponsor a second child for a while, but I guess I was being lazy or holding back and had not set it up.  I also wanted to look into another organization, Compassion International, that works in third-world communities through child sponsorship.  During that tour in the Azores, we had a miscarriage.  I was so sad, but this seemed like the right time to add a sponsored child into our family, so I picked a little girl from Peru, Natalia.  Had our baby been a girl, we would have called her Natalie and I wanted this little girl to be blessed in honor of our little one.

Now, our sponsored children include one boy, Sanzya (who took Mpundu's place when WorldVision completed their work in his community), Natalia, who is now 7 years old, and more recently we added a 17 year old girl named Rosalande, from Haiti.  Older children have a hard time finding sponsors, but it can mean so much blessing in their lives when they do.  I think since I don't have any daughters I am drawn to the girls.  I also think, what a difference we can make in the world when we give girls a chance!  In many third world countries women are the sole providers for the children and they need help.

Sponsorship is so cool because you know you are making a huge impact in these young ones' lives.  They are able to go to school, be dressed in appropriate clothing, and have access to food and clean water because of your generosity. You can send extra gifts (of $$) for birthdays, Christmas, or whenever.  I have done this and received back pictures of our kids so happy with the things they were able to purchase with that money.  Sanzya actually bought a bed roll with one of our gifts and I had to explain to Jackson and Max that not all kids live in houses like we do.  Some of them do not have access to running water and have to walk long miles to get to it and bring it home.  And most of the times, when they do this, the water is not clean.  Many of them live in a house that has a dirt floor and no windows.  Probably almost none of them have flushing toilets.  What an eye opener for my kids.  I hope as they continue to grow up that they never take for granted the blessing of living in America.  And that they use the blessings that come with living life here to bless others.

Most recently I decided to participate in Compassion International's Speak Up campaign, in which I got the name of a little boy who needs a sponsor and I would pray over who might be the right person to ask to be his sponsor.  I had a couple people (and their families) in mind, but then I thought I would write about him here as well.  The little boy is Abdoulaye Kabore and he was born 10/17/2009.  He lives in Boromo, Burkina Faso, a country in Africa.  Would any of you reading this feel led to sponsor this young boy in need?  

And if not this boy, another child in need?  Compassion has so many to choose from.  You can make it special by aligning something about that child with something special in your life:  a birthday, anniversary, special achievement...  You can just look through their pictures and see which one speaks to your heart.  You can just click on the first one you see.

If you have questions about the process or more about my/our personal journey with sponsorship, feel free to comment or write to me personally or give me a call, whatever.  I want to talk about it!!  Being a part of something like this is super exciting and a blessing to both that child and I know it will be to whoever steps up.

Thursday, September 10, 2015

Max at 6 years

Max turned 6 this year!  May 25, 2015

A little late to the game with this post, but figured I would make it anyway, for my own memories and because I love this boy!!

  • Is our goofball
  • Very easily distracted
  • sings to himself all the time
  • loves to dance and be silly
  • Reads well, writing keeps improving and just finished 1st grade math
  • Loves puzzles
  • Favorite foods:  Mom's "good toast," eggs, pediasure (blech), mac and cheese, and cereal
  • Still loves a good bath, especially if Jackson joins him and they have time to play Supers in there

Max loves Awana and he finished his first year as a Sparkie with a book award.


Cuddling little Zeke:)


Aunt Cara came to see us after Zeke was born and it made for the perfect early birthday present.  Here, we were exploring the beautiful Waimea Falls trail. 



Birthday cake


We got Max a last minute bounce house for his birthday.  We used to have this idea that we would let our kids have a birthday party when they turn 5 and when they turn 10.  That went out the window with Max.  His excitement over a party was just too much to bear for this mama.  The cool thing about these boys is that simple is just fine with them.  I am no pinterest worthy party planner or party have-er.  But they don't care!  A bounce house, some snacks, and good cake are plenty for them.  I think Max's little heart was full-even if his party was called something like "Max's Mix-and-Match Birthday Party."  You got it; I used all the old party stuff we had collected from any other time.  Super easy!! 



Tuesday, September 8, 2015

Zeke at 4 months

My little Ezekiel is a sweet and smiley baby.  

At four months:  

  • He sleeps "through" the night, waking to eat once or twice.  
  • Is till only breastfed.
  • rolls back and forth
  • Smiles lots
  • Would rather be held than not and likes to take his morning nap in the Ergo.  
  • Lights up whenever Mama comes around, but likes all the brothers and Daddy pretty well too:)

Our friend Renae got Zeke that "Lil' Fox" onesie




I think this was supposed to be 15 weeks.  Oops!!  But look at that smile!


I will never not love to look at my sleeping baby.  So peaceful.  That that little overall outfit?  That was Jackson's.  But it is too stinkin' hot to put him in it, in Hawaii, for more than a picture.





And I guess I forgot 16 weeks altogether.  



Zeke at 5 months

Zeke at 5 months
  • Is VERY drooly
  • Doesn't have any teeth. 
  • Does not seem to care much for good sleep; has no daytime schedule of sleep, excepting the last two days, where naps have been good.  Here's to hoping that continues!
  • Has huge smiles and can have some great chuckles
  • Will almost always laugh if you play "Peek-a-Boo"
  • Seems to love Thomas, aside from when Tom decides to lay on him, lol
  • We have tried some baby food, but he does not get the whole "there is stuff in my mouth I have to work around" thing; seems interested in whatever food we have
  • Rolls everywhere, all across/around the floor.  Will not stay in one place for long!
  • Is not comforted by nursing the way my other boys were.  He is comforted by mama though!  He can be screaming his little head off and you hand him to me and it is like instant happy.  
  • Would rather be on mama's hip rather than any of the baby apparatus' we have.  This is mostly okay at this point because I have a great hip sling and he can finally hold his head up really well and isn't so floppy.  
  • Only poops about once a week.  Just thought you'd like to know that interesting tidbit.  

Very thankful for this bumbo on loan from our friend Ms. Angie.  Both Zeke and Thomas LOVE to sit in it while I cook.




Auntie Cara got this outfit for Thomas and I love that Zeke gets to where it as well.  Isn't he just too cute??


Diaper baby!



He likes the activity sensor for all of 10 minutes at a time





And he still has good hair!!

Sunday, August 9, 2015

Thomas at 18 months

At 18 months Thomas is mischievous and fun, daring and busy.


Every 18 months old's favorite thing:  wearing Mom or Dad's shoes


Thomas loves some good bouncing in Zeke's bouncer


I am quite sure this was supposed to say 18 months.  Mom's mistake or Thomas being crazy?  

  • He doesn't have very many words.  Too many people talking for him?  Giving him what he wants based on his motions or grunts?  Who knows?!  But he does say Mama, Dada, Night-night.  He will sign please, thank you, more, and all done.  He will sometimes say duck, quack and dog, but they all sound alike, lol.  I feel like he has attempted other words, but nothing is very clear yet. 
  • Mike says one of the best words for him is disheveled.  He is a mess, much of the time.  He has food on his face, dirt or blueberry juice under his fingernails, hair never combed.  He had his first haircut recently, which was necessary!  
  • He LOVES to dance.  He will go over to the CD player and point and grunt until we put on the music.  Then, he will put his arms up, wanting to be picked up and dance with me.  
  • His incisor teeth are working their way in.  
  • He likes to be naked, but be careful...  He also has no concept of pee or poop yet!
  • He loves baby Zeke.  He likes to rub Zeke's head and touch his nose.  There are many attempts to put his fingers in Zeke's eyes and nose, but out of curiosity.  There is still the occasional (okay, probably at least daily) wap on the head for poor Zeke. 
  • He loves the big bros as well.  Max can make him laugh like nobody's business.  Max can also tease and elicit a good screech from Thomas. 
  • He still loves to be outside.  And if there is water in the pool, he will be wet in a heartbeat.  
  • Current favorite foods include string cheese, frozen blueberries, grapes.  Sometimes he will eat eggs, sausage, hot dogs, and pasta.  Overall, I would say he eats like the average toddler.  
  • He loves to go bye-bye.  Only mention bye-bye if you are leaving right now
  • He is still not sleeping through every night, woe to Mama.  Most nights, he will wake up, have a drink and go back to sleep.  But teething has been hard on him and he likes to get up in the middle of the night to play when those buggers are coming in.